New Season

A new season is upon me.

Well, I'm not as angry with myself anymore.

Today, I've deactivated my main FB account and proceeded to limit my "study" FB account. I want to use FB to help me in my walk with God, no nonsense, no whining, no gossip.

All is good. Be back shortly.

What Are Words? (My Thoughts)

It's true, isn't it? What are words when you don't really mean them when you say them? I mean, how many times have people make promises only to break them? 

I have issues with words. Words that are spoken, oh so carelessly. Words spoken without any thought of where and how it would land. Words that are spoken rashly. Words that pour out endlessly, serving no other purpose than to gain self-pity or exhibit one's self-righteousness. Words spoken by empty-vessels who have myopic views and no big picture views at all.

Do you have those people in your life? Everyone has them. I think the most frequent offender stares back at me in the mirror.

How many times have I promised myself, that I would not repeat the same mistake? Not to give in? You want to know how many times? Countless!!!!!

I had a revelation that I seriously need some boundaries. Hard lines drawn, build a thick wall and take the ladder away from me, kind of boundaries. Because unless I change, I am going to attract like-minded people, people without boundaries. 

I am so angry at myself and have been so for the past couple of months. I shall stop here and come back when I'm less angry. 

What Are Words? (YouTube Video)

Enjoy this beautiful song by Chris Medina

What Are Words

Anywhere you are

I am near

Anywhere you go

I'll be there

Anytime you whisper my name

You'll see

Every single promise I'll keep

'Cause what kind of guy

Would I be

If I was to leave

When you need me most

What are words if you really

Don't mean them when you say them

What are words if they're only

For good times then that's all

When it's love ya you say them

Out loud these words

They never go away

They live on

Even when we're gone

And I know an angel was sent

Just for me an I know I'm meant

To be where I am and I'm gonna be

Standing right beside her tonight

And I'm gonna be by your side

I would never leave when she needs me most

What are words if you really

Don't mean them when you say them

What are words if they're only

For good times then that's all

When it's love ya you say them

Out loud these words

They never go away

They live on

Even when we're gone

Anywhere you are

I am near

Anywhere you go

I'll be there

And I'm gonna be here forever more

Every single promise I'll keep

'Cause what kind of guy would I be

If I was to leave

When you need me most

I'm forever keeping my angel close

Homeward Bound

And just like that, our 2 years in the desert is done and we will be leaving the Land of the Free on the 23rd of this month. It has been a crazy week, all the packing, cleaning, tossing, donating and selling.

God has been so good despite my mustard-seed-sized faith. During this tour, we bought a total of 3 cars. All 3 were sold to the very first person who viewed the car. Especially for my car, there were no viewers over almost 6 months. And the guy who bought it, he saw it, drove it, loved it and we went to the bank to get the transaction done. All completed in under 2 hours, from the time he viewed the car, to the time he dropped us off at the car rental company. 

This time round, we have 1 queen mattress, 1 king mattress plus frame, 1 sofa and a huge Ikea Kallax (4 x 4). The Kallax went within a day of advertising it.  The other 3 big ticket items (as in how are we going to transport it to anywhere) were left. There were many enquirers but no one actually wanted to buy it or have the necessary means of transportation. 

Then on the day before the movers came to collect our boxes, there was a frenzy in the morning and after lunch, both the mattresses, the bed frame and sofa were all sold and collected. God is really always very on time. We could stay comfortably in the house till the boxes leave. It's just that my faith is so tiny that I panicked like nobody's business. My body is so tired and I wondered how I could help to move the things onto a truck. I was calling and asking for places who would take in the items and if they could do a pickup, but in the end they were all sold for very little, like the king bed and frame for 10% of what we got it for, but we were glad it went and we didn't have to deal with it anymore.

I'm now typing this out in the hotel lobby, while the housekeeping is on our floor. Hubby is in the house waiting for the carpet cleaning people and we will handover the house this afternoon. My entire body is in desperate need of rest. Thank God for hubby who is clearing his vacation days just to do all these things. I am so thankful.

Blessed New Year

Hei Hei! Blessed New Year!

Another year gone and a NEW one has started. 

We were supposed to go to Phoenix on Saturday but Hubby literally pulled a muscle in his back right before we left the house. 😑 I've been through this so many times, I know it's gonna hurt something bad. He still wanted to bring me there to spend the day but I told him, no.

We went instead to a local coffee shop. I enjoyed my chai tea and we shared 2 scones. Yummy! Also went to Target where I got 2 very different looking Christmas stockings for 70% off. One has his initial but I could not find mine. T-T And the other one was the gray sugar paper one that I was trying to hunt down and there was only the one left, and hence we'd be having 2 totally different stockings. Oh well, they look good individually so who cares! After that, I hopped to Michael's, where I got a bunch of TN inserts at 60% off. Not quite sure about them, but I'd use any journals, so there.

Back to talking about the NEW Year. As usual, I planned on doing so much everyday. But I had to go with my priority list, which puts hubby first before everything else. So I decided to be present and live in the moment, rather than just go through my checklist of things to do.

We went for a lovely brunch at a new place for hubby.  He liked the shared small plate of mushrooms the most. Hehehe. 

What I managed to do today:

1. Hobonichi Entry

2. Artist of Life Workbook (3 questions for 2017 reflection)

3. Passion Planner 2017 (end of month review for December 2017)

4. Passion Planner 2018 (logging the day)

5. Illustrated Faith Planner (Gratitude List for the day)

6. This blog entry

7. Kept Christmas lights

8. Cooked dinner

Actually, quite a good day, considering I was out for a good part of the day.

Two Days Before Christmas

I can't believe that Christmas is only 2 days away. 

The malls and the roads are crazy right now. Many have been infected with the "crazy driver" syndrome. 😓 You really have to be so alert on the roads. I don't mind the crowd and queues everywhere, because Singapore's weekend crowds is pretty much about there in town. I am not very happy with the traffic, or rather the crazy driving. A car is basically like a death machine but not many people seem to get that. And then there is the talking on the phone or texting while driving, can you say death wish?????

On another note, the library was surprisingly peaceful today. I spent like 1.5 hours at the library with a journal and my planner. It was quite fruitful. Hubby was busy bringing the peeps who have just arrived to the bank, sign their apartment lease and get their cellphones. So I had initially gone to Michael's and after that I got bored, that usually means I either end up at a library or at Barnes and Noble. Today I decided not to venture to the mall where Barnes and Noble is located, and ended up at the library nearest to where hubby was doing his thing.

The parking lot at the library was pretty empty. 😊And that means that I got my own big table at the library. Super happy. Listened to some podcast while I journal away. Happy!

Hubby and I met up about 2:45pm to grab our lunch at a nearby, small Asian eatery. I managed to still get their cheapish lunch specials. Nothing special, just food. Get it in the stomach and move on. Hubby's choice was very nice though, but mine was less than half the price of his. Haha! I wasn't really in a craving mood, and I just want to get some food and I wasn't too particular.

Came home after late lunch and now we are at home. Did some pickup and small clean up around the house and wrapped the Christmas present for our Landlord. The Landlord called to say that he wants to come over to give us a present for Christmas. 😆 Hope it's not something extravagant, or I'll feel so bad. 

Typing this now as I have some time to kill while the hubby is doing his research on some knives and stones. He is very into knives, as in expensive kitchen knives and keeping them sharp. He had just ordered me a bread knife off of Amazon. Hahaha. So I'll leave him to it, while I listened to a YouTube Video on combining a bullet journal with GTD, and type out this blog entry. 

The workbook and planner that I ordered, probably would not reach me in time for me to do my set up. I'm looking at changing my plans. The delivery is all crazy now, with the sudden influx in numbers and probably weather conditions and delays. Oh well, thankfully the planner that I ordered is non-dated, so no biggie. The workbook, my guess is that it would arrive really close to the New Year, hopefully. Anyway, the video sounds really interesting, I think I shall go pay it more attention. 

Reflect and Reset

So with the year coming to an end, I started to do some small research before December. I compiled some questions to be used as reflection for 2017 and for setting a direction for 2018. I've been doing this for a number of years. In 2016, I've asked my buddy to join me on this journey and it was pretty fruitful if I may say so. In 2017, I invited 2 more ladies to join me.  I've mainly been doing the 2nd part with them, but this year, I thought why don't we try to do the entire thing all together?

On December 01, 2017, I got all their consensus to join me on this exciting journey (at least for me, it was exciting). I thought I would put up a summary of the discussion questions here as a record. 

1. Send a personal text to one another, listing 3 good qualities about the person you are texting.
2. Share the 3 most memorable moments in 2017.
3. Share 3 wins in 2017.
4. Share what didn't work in 2017 (3 lessons learnt and what good came out of it)
5. Are you happy with how you spent your time in 2017? If not, what steps can you take to change this in 2018?
6. 2017 you versus 2016 you.
7. Who or what are you grateful for in 2017?
8. Seek God to get directions for 2018.
9. Who would you be, what would you do and what would you have in "Perfectville".
10. Create a vision board based on #9.
11. For all the things listed in #10 as goals for 2018 or life goals, what is your motivation? What is your why?
12. What are some things that you want to let go of in 2018?
13. What are some things you would include in a NOT-TO-DO List for 2018?
14. Are there any new things that you want to try?  Or new places to visit?
15. Self-care : Physical and Mental Health - What are some ways to take better care of yourself?
16. New habits to developed for 2018?

Isn't this interesting?

My progress:

• I'm done with 2017.
• I've gotten confirmation on my word for the new season and also the verse.
• I'm still working on more concrete stuff for 2018.

I'm mainly waiting for 2 more books to get delivered to me - one is being shipped out today or tomorrow and the other one is an overseas delivery and I'm praying that it's not lost.  😓 But meanwhile, I'm searching for some articles to read on the year of 5778. So it's kind of all still in the air but I'm in no hurry as I'm sure that it will all become clear and come together soon. 

Am I Still Depressed?

To be very honest, things happen. And I do feel down and there will be a period of time when life seem to stand still. I dread getting up and sometimes just spend entire days in bed. Things that interest me, no longer do. I wonder where life is headed. 

Mid May 2017

It's that dreaded time of the year again. Mother's Day. This year, I actually have someone wishing me a Happy Mother's Day, but I did not reply. It hurts.

March 2017

Oh wow, I can't believe that today is the last day of March. Time really flies by so fast.

January

I was busy finding my direction for 2017. I received some words but was trying to piece everything together. Some conferences and sermons I attended, watched or listened to helped to piece my season together. I'm happy and pleased with this.

So basically, 2017 is going to be a re-set year for me, Year of Jubilee. 😇

1. REST to ENGAGE my giants
2. LISTEN and be FED
3. FLOW with the SPIRIT of GOD

So, in summary, that will be the season I'll be in. God is so awesome to fill in the blanks for me. I believe that better things are coming and certainly things will become clearer.

January also holds one of the happiest moments or few days of this year, because my brother, SIL and my cute niece came to stay with us for a few days over the Lunar New Year. I love this little girl so much. She is so adorable and smart. She is the best little girl in the world to me. I was really upset when she left, I cried at the airport after they went into the secured area. Hubby hugged me and called me silly. I know that she is growing up so fast and I wonder if she will remember this visit with us and how I massaged her feet for her and how she enjoyed it.

February

February is always a celebratory month for us. It's our anniversary. God is really so, so good. We kicked off our road trip by attending Joyce Meyer Conference in Phoenix. From there, we headed to Las Vegas, Los Angeles and then San Diego. We re-visited some places but also visited new places. I enjoyed the trip, with the exception of the terrible traffic in San Diego (oh how my bladder paid for it) and a couple of stinky hotel rooms.

While I contemplated leaving negative feedbacks on travel sites on those hotel that advertize non-smoking room but then it reeks of stale post-smoke stench, whose fault is it really? I think that the patrons are so irresponsible to smoke in those rooms. Then again the hotel should be more proactive to clean out the rooms properly if they are still letting the rooms out as non-smoking. For people like me with sensitive airway, it can really become a life and death issue. End rant.

March

I spent most of March being sick or afflicted by allergies. My body fought hard because I was not keen to go to the doctors and be given the pesky steroids due to my history of asthma. All the medications that will be prescribed have side effects that I don't care for. Therefore, I decided to fight with just raw honey, liquids and rest. It was long-suffering but hey, I made it through the worst and I'm left with sniffles from the pollen and that is all. 🙌 Win!

As I was wondering how do I proceed on a creative journey and use up my roomful of supplies, I was directed to the #100dayproject. So I started on the 29th of March and the 100th day would be 6th July. I wanted to paint hearts and crosses, but on day 3, which is today, I lifted an idea off a book. I wrote the Bible verses on love into the form of a dress.

Dress in love. 8.5" x 11" Sketch book Mr Sketch Stix Markers Idea lifted from More Creative Lettering by Jenny Doh. #zoefiedseasontoengage #zoefiedlife #zoefiedlifeinthedesert #day3of100 #the100dayproject #the100dayproject2017 #heart #imnolongeraslavetofear #zoefied100daysofheartsandcrosses #becreative #babysteps #notoverthinkingthis

A post shared by Zoe Ng (@zoefiedlife) on Mar 31, 2017 at 4:21pm PDT

I'm quite happy with it. As long as I quote where I lifted the idea from, I think this can totally help me to be more creative. I'm happy to be on the right track. 🙆